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Perhaps this aversion to vulnerability boils down to a fear of failure. How do we, collectively, define one of the most pervasive terms of this generation? And I was showing him my true self, my vulnerabilities and my realness. As always, the best practice here is safer sex. This online foreplay becomes a way to negotiate one's sex life.